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Wednesday, 23 July 2008

They are tempting me o!

First I gotta say this...

I love you guys. As in you guys are tew maaaad. Ive come to realize that though we might drive/walk past each other and not recognise one another, it dont mean we dont care bout each other ( I don dey too talk) anyways, thanks for being there for know una self.

Story stoooory? you know me I always have a story to tell.

I dont like married men!

welll if they are not minding their own business facing their families then I dont like them, you see, I come from a polygamous home and I know what shit my bro and I went thru growing up. I swore at a very young age that that shit wasnt going to happen to my kids as in, Ild rather be a single mother than be someones second or third wife, sheet, Ild rather not at all, so with this info its easy to understand my state of mind.

I have never dated a married man! A friends friend was bawling a couple of weeks ago, trust me olofofo,

Aunty wotapeen? whai are you cryying like as if they haf shoot you? or your mama she haf die?

"my bo-y-frie-nd is- hur-ting-me"

sha sha, it turned out to be that he boyfriend in question is a married man, who promised he was leaving his wife actually he told her his wife and kids were relocating and never coming back, he was divorcing his wife and marrying her. oloshi. oya Mr oga, when is your wife going? question? Till now the wife never go o! the man bought her i-phone the oloriburuku girl returned it, the man wanted to buy her car, the ashiere said she does not want (if you dont know the meaning of oloriburuku and ashiere, well me too i dont know, i sha know it is heavy heavy curse) If it is me, I will sell the phone and the car and tell him they tif it! My own conclusion is that the girl is mad and if she does end up with the man well, I guess one good turn will deserve another. so back to my story

All my uncles call me a slacker,non performer why? I don't organize chics for them, i mean hooow? fine I know I am related to them not thier wives but how am I supposed to organise poosy for them and still be able to look their wives in thier faces? nah that one is not my calling besides 8 out of 10 of my friends na man ask exschnerd and geisha they know me well so except they are gay? no show.

That is how I was minding my business when the first uncle (in recent times) approached me, funnily enough, I didnt even know that one was married, I sha knew there was something about him I didnt like. One evening after plenty, Im busy, Im outta town (dont blame me, I was going through a phase I dint want to see anyone)sha, I just got back from a wedding when he calls, where am I, let his see me, yadiyadi and Im thinking what tha fork? okay, Im home, but you gas hurry up, If I get changed, Im not coming downstairs again o!

I gasta add that day, I was looking STUNNING, sha he shows up in his Ivtech, I think thats what he drives, otherwise wetin concyn me? I get in and he starts to talk

"Omo, you sexy o! this that and then the disgusting part, he is trying to get his hand round my shoulder, remember guys bad no dey flirt mode, I mean if na yosh now ehen, Na me go put hand down him trouser but haba this guy? hells no! no he is not ugly, there was just somin about him, and when I get those vibes it means they are trouble! (my vibes dont fail me cuz thats the night I find out he's married with a daughter) I sha told him to cool off, he wasnt listening and I got down.

Come back he is saying but I aint listening, you be my papa?

the next day, Im bored so I get dressed up and go watch Prince Caspian, as Im walking out of the galleria guess who I walk right into? Him!

he starts bitching, so I came out without him, as if I dey follow am comot before, Whats he doin here? he came to see the premiere of the movie 30 days, at galleria! you no dey read Iv? he's laughin as he gives me the invite, pls check for me, get in, we'll talk on the way, so here I am boxed in a corner but I dont mind cuz my homeboy paps is at the premiere and i havent seen him in a while, so I call paps to tell him Im coming over.

"hey darling Im coming over but Im not staying, I just want to see your face yadiyaya"

the bitch starts bitching again, in his very before, I am calling another man, Im not even afraid, he wont do that to me, this that, that, this. I ignored him, why should I bother trying to explain my relationship with paps to him? we aint together bitch. While in that his motor, the short distance from galleria to expo centre, I nust have recieved 5 calls from diff guys, All my friends but bitch dont know that does he?

We saw Paps, he decided not to stay for the event afterall as the idiot hadnt bothered to read the invite so he was dressed a bit too casually, he'ld rather watch ball anyway so off to city mall, by now I must have spoken to 3 more guys. so he starts fuming, how come I spend so much time on the phone yet, I have never called him? only text messages, if I flash sebi he will call back and Im like "You no even happy sey i text you sef"

we get to city Mall, watch the end of the first half and Im like, Im off, I gotta get home.

lemme walk you he says

nah dont worry, Ill get a cab right outside, so you dont have to miss the 2nd half

ehen! somebody is waiting for you outside abi? and Im like whaddafork!

okay fine, walk me

no dont worry, go he says

walk me and come and pay for my cab I say

Am I to pay for your cab?

WHADDAYAMEANYOUMORRAFORKER? I laugh and walk on Chill he says,

I got myself out, I can get myself home I say.

I got home safe, he called a couple of time later to apologise? I dunno but meen the guy na scum! so thanking God, i found out early enough plus I had that feeling so one down abi?

you would think.

so my grandaunt passes away and being a muslim, the burial is less than a week later. guess who does most of the wahala? me! sebi, I never resume work? from aso ebi to venue to rentals to caterers to drinks? all moi.

I looked like shit, after it all including me gettin pissed when one of the girls from my sec sch shows up and I ask who exactly she is asking of?

"O we've seen him, we've seen Abdul. Abdul is a 55yr old man married with 6 kids, I call him Daddy or Uncle or Daddy Soji plus I kneel down when I see him, the bitch called him Abdul. hmmm the wonders of this life.

After all said and done everyone has eaten our food and gone home but for a few uncles and a few of their friends, I sit beside an uncle and hi friend.

"sweetheart" the friend says, I dont know who the fork he is " you must be tired, after all the work you did, pele, sit down" he pours me some wine, I sip, he's tending to me and Im like whaddayawant man? but he is still my uncles friend (though Im not sure which one) so im like yes sir, yes sir, driver shows up, time to go home to my left is my fav uncle so I kiss him goodnight sa, to my right the 'good man?' I make to shake him but he grabs me and hugs me instead, pressing my softness against his hardness and Im like uhn? he kisses both cheeks and on the second one he whispers

"Call me"

a card is folded into my palm. as a sharp girl, I act like nothing, say good night to all and walk away, I can feel his stares on my backside, he must be hard by now My yamama mind is thinking, I have that effect on people, I think some more.

In the car I check the card

Idowu Rotimi
Regional Manager
Some bank

I sigh as I shake my head, I dont do this sheet, dont he know?

okay so here I am, the card in my bag,

if I call him

1. I'm a hypocrite
2. It could be traced back to me and how the hell my family go look me? (though they all do it o!)

If i dont call him

1. No trips for me and Im bored
2. who knows.

oya blogfamilly mi. whaddayathink?


Chari said...

Nonsense...dem mama yansh...
in ma mind this is instant total fuckery now...*hiss...I don vex

badderchic said...

@ Chari

? uhn?

ShonaVixen said...

married seem to be the ones who like straying too much...why o???And these men trying to be sleek, sliding the business card n all!!SMH
thanx for stopping by my blog and please come again!!xoxo

bumight said...

maybe its the perfume u're using cos u seem to be giving off a "married men only" vibe, lol!

badderchic said...

@ Shona

me i dont know o! abi see me see wahala

@ Bumight

if so i am off to break the perfume kiakia

ynot! said...

1st tym here but... chic, didn't u state, on ur profile, that u "...don't care what you(ppl...bloggers) think either..."?

& u'r now askn for ppl's comments...?!

Afrobabe said...

lol...wettin dey chop chari???

hmmmm, now what to do...babes, I like bad thing but if it can be traced back by family then its a NO NO...wait for some time you will meet someone to tease and play with...someone not connected to family...

Glad to have u back...

Jaguda said...

mini crisis time! u will be fine jare. continue with ur policy o. there are enuff single guys to trip u. ps which perfume u dey use? lol

Naija Idol said...

Like some girls i know would say, married men na im dey pay pass. i know pple who date married men steadily. ill never give it a second thot. its just too gross.

NikkiSab said...

no do am o!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dis is d work of d devil and i say Fire Seriously, he aint worth it. A good name is more important dan trips. Besides u can spoil ur name wit someoda single guy n feel nothing, why waste ur time scrubbing on some1 elses property. Bone d dude.

badderchic said...

@ Ynot

I maintain that I DONT GIVE A FORK! dont mean I dont care what my blog FAMILY think.

@ Afrobabe

abi o! I concur, thank you jere my sister.

@ Jaguda

only God know o! abi, and to think the guy has a beer belly sef. psheew

@ Naija idol

that is why it is Some girls, may I not fall under that category in JESUS name!

@ NIkisab

AMEN!All fashion weapon against me fire fire fire fire! kill kill kill kill! ni iruko Jesu christi oluwa wa! Amen

I shall bone like bone thugs and harmony (not mine line, dat nigga raw's)

Mz. Dee said...

gimme a sec let me go and do my jigidi blogville dance.

Mz. Dee said...

lol!...married man aura..!
welldone o..:p

4get bout him o... not worth it if ur family findz out!

flabby said...

as in this many calls in 10 minutes!

chari only God knows what ur on about!!lol

AlooFar said...

Ha! Na wa O.

U just dey kill dem dey go ;)

Naapali said...

I see drama has a way of finding you. As to what you should do; do what you and your heart can live with.

pinkyandbrain said...

You know i have been pondering since the first time i set my lens and thots on your blog sometimes last year that its either you'r an alter-ego of exschoolnerd(and the displayed side-faced pic of yours so shows much similarity to her)...and from all your writtings you both seem to have the same body shape,coupled with some other noticeable factors i really dont have to go into at this point since am not a blog auditing Sherlock Holmes OR just a coincidental opposite from another mother.
Whatever anyone of us here says wont really matter coz u know right from wrong...if u wanna go on trips coz u'r bored no lele but i assume you wont be an "oloriburuku" or "ashiere" like the subject you made reference know what ;just be a smart-ass afterall the "agbaya" is certainly outside his range & his married.But seriously i second jaguda - which perfume you dey use self?

badderchic said...

@ Mz Dee

Dance the dance well

@ Flabby

as a bad girls

@ Naapali

As in really, I run, drama will purshoe me, as in ko ye mi o!

badderchic said...

@ Pinky

Lol at your long post.

you wouldnt be the first to wonder so let me set things straight.

Exschnerd is one of the few bloggers who know my true identity and understands the need to stay anonymous.

Im waay shorter than she is trust me, the girl has to bend to hug me the only consolation is Im older than she is errm is that a consolation?

She's taller as I said so I cant say about the body strucure, o! yes, I am big but its more pronounced for me cuz im shorter darn I believe Im bigger than she is.

In real life (funny how that sounds) exschnerd is shy! annoying abi? me? locomotive engine, I sold my shame for a piece of fish a long time ago.

why am i goin on and on?

there's alot of comments I dont approve, so hopefully this answers alot of questions.

finally, I don dash that perfume out, lets see what wahala calvin's euphoria will cause now.

phew! that was long.

Baroque said...

where the hell is my comment? infact i dey vex now...REMOVE THIS COMMENT MODERATION SHIT ABEG

pinkyandbrain said...

Thank you for the clarifications and you should know that we mostly dont give a fuckery if you approve our comments or not & u asked for it really..we're all just yarning coz you really sounded like it was a defensive press conference but sha wetin you won do now?

badderchic said...

@ Baroque

No vex love, abeg bear with me, you should see some of the comments i get at times, I need to moderate o! my love.

@ Pinky


this is me trying to figure out if you are friend or foe.


Old man want a yang gal to rub his belle?? YUK!!!! Ignore d rascal and wen u see him run for d door screaming!!!! heheheh

kay-shawn said...

Please dont call him!

Hi, first time here I think.

Afrobabe said...

lmao @ u trying to figure out if pinky is friend or foe...

I know exschoolnerd in real life too and I concur she is shy...

if its any consolation...I am also way older than she is...

pinkyandbrain said...

tew funny madam,am neither friend nor just objective about your follow-up comments.You should understand by now that we'r all one happy fuji house of blogville commotion family with different views but of the same voice.

badderchic said...

@ S E L

you for see the race wey I pick, no be small thing!

@ Kayshawn

Thanks for the 'drop by' love appreciate am well well

@ Afrobabe

I owe you Ice cream!

@ Pinky

Do I get to be the fuji house of commotion sister that poisons the brother? just so he will purge? preety pleeeeasse (cute face me)

badderchic said...

Out for the weekend guys ISP dey funk up.

Mz. Dee said...

sweety i changed my blog url.
plz re-blogroll me!

Buttercup said...

sorry bout ur grandaunt...

nawa o...wat is it wit married men?? i just dey fear to get married...