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I cant express myself saying it exactly as it is?

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Sunday, 18 January 2009

Going Private.

I'm sorry Guys but I have to do this.

Blogsville sure has changed. It used to be a loving community.

I mean I cried when CWB left, Porter and Yosh where dem dey? It hurts Ubong Da doent update often anymore.

The things pple use Blogsville for now? appalling.

I stumbled upon a blog where the author specialises in putting up pictures of who is sleeping with who. Maybe I did not understand the blog well but what I understood? I was dissapointed.

Their business who is shagging who, I have more issues in my life. but then agin, maybe I did not understand the blog well.

Gone are those days where I was always looking forward to a gazillion comments. I no need am.

I have made wonderful friends to last a lifetime here, I am fulfilled with the few friends, I cherish their advice, support, love, attention.

Once I have figured it out, I go Private.

Those of you I love, Cherish come with me.

More jist soon.


Just...Toluwa said...

yeah, i just stumbled on dt blog too. but wen u do go private, pls invite moi...

mizchif said...

I was going to say don't do it. But i did it too, so i understand where you are coming from. So i'll just say INVITE ME!!!

Thank you!

~Sirius~ said...

Why now? :-(

Don't Let them affect what blogspot means to you....

Danny Bagucci said...

Hey -- Sad to hear that... Another one leaving the "family"....... I'm sure you've thot long and hard about it before taking the decision, so I'll not try to second guess you...... But if there is a hint that you can change your mind on this.. Do give it some serious thought..... Surely, what someone else decides to do with his/her blog is not in your power to change, so why take a decision based on that? Just my thought tho...

wavemasta said...

How are you gonna do that...go private I mean........and yeah am first! lol

bumight said...

i understand babe. people who are close to me keep stumbling on my blog. ive thought of going private many times. do what you have to do.
blogville keeps changing, new readers, new motives.
u'll always feel closer to those dat were around the same time u started. dont be a stranger though ;)

Funms-the rebirth said...

:( :( :(............
i totally agree with u.....beta take me with u oooooo cuz it sure wont be d same without u

Ibukun said...

Chai, mrs I enjoy reading your blog o, I guess you just gotta do what you gotta do abi :)

Ibukun said...

Ps, Iaikomo is cappuccinebaby, just posted on my email adresss by mistake :)

Padosh said...

Mydear...i saw the silly blog, was going to mention it in my last post but i decided it didnt deserve the time or energy needed to type it.

It is very shameful.

All these prepubescent children shoved into university b4 their brain cells mature who then decide to copy wat they see on TV.

Joblessness at its highest level

Was thinkin along d same lines ...make sure u sha invite me when you go private!!!!

Naughty Eyes said...

I fully respect your wishes about going private but when you do please add me to your readers list. I no need know who is shagging who sef. I no wan know who is shagging you either. And nobody suppose care who isn't shagging at all. I just wanna read your blog.

geisha said...

welcome to the 'on the way out' club. i'm completely gone so i cant exactly say anything :D
our friendship shall continue-as it always has-in the real world! ta ta babe. xx

Jaja said...

My baby.. what have they done to you..???

We will continue

ShonaVixen said...

Hon, if you decide to go private please just let me know heey!!! xoxo

bArOquE said...

ah ah, wetin don happen again...which kind bad belle people be own Chairladay? you guys lets these things bother you, i wonder...anyway, anywhere you go, i go...*hugs & kisses*

Man Cee said...

No go under o.
I love ur writing style.
Yeah, I know you don't know me nor have I left a comment for you before...but your threat of disappearing has caused me to break the ice.
Would have initiated contact siiince, but I was struggling with a dilema-what my motives were. To exchange poems, shag with you or both.
...But I digress ;)

InCogNaija said...

it sure has changed...well,m sha carry me with you abeg...lets leave all these haters alone. lmao!

Anonymous said...

You? LOL
You know you need the attention and feeling of being "all that" more than you need fork.
Stay public and stop bullshitting.

LG said...

*sigh* the things we do to ourselves in Blogville

LusciousRon said...

Darling don't go private because of the rubbish some people write. Sadly, its a blog and they can say what they want you really can't control what people write and how they write it, you can only control what you read.

Its like television there are several stations showing whatever you can only change the channel if you don't like what is on it.

If you do go private we will surely miss you.

CaramelD said...

I don't like the sound of this....what does it mean to go private? You're not going to do a 'Carl' and disappear are you?

Writefreak said... sorry you feel like this...

I still feel blogville is a family, maybe i'm deluded..any blgo that doesn't do it for me, or posts things i consider offensive, i ex..hope i'll be invited to vsit your blog.

Jarrai said...

Honey i totally get you...i went private too. Felt like people where rumaging in my underwear drawer and i felt kinda freaked out...some actually went as far as emailing me!!!

Do your thing.I berra get an invite tho :)

Teeee said...

Don't go private.... your blog is like one of the many that keep me blogging. I've seen what you've referred to and I guess everyone wants to use blogsville for different purposes....

teecity said...

hey now dat was a SURPRISE. wasnt expecting it at all. i think i understand thou. remain Blesss n do take me with u as i ve come to cherish wat little friendship we ve.

Naija Idol said...

Happy New year!!!! Blogville has really turned into something else. been away for a while. hope im sha invited.

flabby said...

wow! soon there would be no more blogs to view..except the goddip least ur not leaving theres a gud chance that ill get an invite!

either way..sorry it came to this!

Afrobabe said...

Funny enough that was what I tot when i saw the site...the worse part is they could all be picures of random people in clubs...

I am thinking of quiting the whole blog scene...I don tire... incase...

FineBoy Agbero said...

now, dont do this...

ibiluv said...

going private?

i fully understand your reasons

remember to invite us

Tisha said...

badder chic. u go private and if you dont its all good. i find the site you described just as distasteful as you. i hope the owner of that blog gets whats coming to him/her.

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

please if you do go private invite me coz i love your blog

I went to the blog too GGN and was shocked, thats not the spirit of blogville we are all about love and support, i will not be going back to that site.

Dabizniz said...

Just stumbled too don't go private... Seems like you have a lot to say

musco said...

maybe we shld all go private ...?

badderchic said...

@ Just...Toluwa


@ mizchif

@ ~Sirius~
They dont...wont. I go with those who mean alot to me abi?

@ Danny Bagucci
Sweetheart, Im not leaving, Im just going private.

@ wavemasta

Nope you not first, I gotta.

@ bumight
As in theres enuff pple to keep up with already abi?

@ Funms-the rebirth
You go where I go. lol

@ Ibukun
Yep I gotta.
Yes mam

@ Padosh
Olorun o! see as you finish am.
dissapointing ainnit?

Invited! lol

@ Naughty Eyes

I write for you simple and short!

@ geisha
Sweetie, I leave NOT. Just goin private.

@ Jaja
When you left me nko, what do you expect ehn?
We MUST continue.

@ ShonaVixen
Invited! chikena.

@ bArOquE
I go you go! they cant get to me o! they cant. meanwhile, which day you wan give me belle you this boy ehn? I recieve all the hugs and the kisses granted they are on both sets of lips.

@ Man Cee
You have joined the list of men who want to Shag me abi?YOur punishment for not initiating contact earlier and not helping me make Baroque jealous is that you get invited late...well sha lets see houw it goes.

PS exchange poems? lol

@ InCogNaija
It has changed seriously. I put you in my suitcase lol

@ Anonymous

Sorry ass Mo fo the Anon.

private? Me? Watch me!

you piss head!

whoever the fuck you are, you know I LOVE the attention obviously but what you dont know is Im so content with what I get from those I got already, those who genuinely send me.

i AM all that, you bitch.

Attention more than FORK?

BITCH raised to power 2.

I just stopped bullshitting by telling you what a piss head you Anons really are, the comments I have to field off from y'all, the rubbish I have to reject, na una cause am wey Cwb and Unshined leave blogsville.

I AM going private because of y'all, hiding behind the Anon veil... Cowards.


"Stay public and stop bullshitting."

Go fuck yourself.

@ LG

*sighs with you* the things we do .

@ LusciousRon
You can come with me love.

@ CaramelD
I will not dissappear

@ Writefreak
so sorry too. ofcourse you are invited.

@ Jarrai
My sister, you are with me o!

@ Teeee
I wont stop blogging na haba

@ teecity said...
I cherish y'all too. you come with me abi?

@ Naija Idol

@ flabby
yes u do too

@ Afrobabe
abi, very immature rubbish, wetin concyn me with who dey fork who?

if you quit, I FLOG YOU!

@ FineBoy Agbero
I gasta sweerie

@ ibiluv
You are in VIP section abi u no know?

@ Tisha
I hope too. you invited love.

Man Cee said...

Don't get me wrong; I don't want to shag you. No ma'am.
I'd love to shag 'with' you.

I quote 9ice " ...test me".

Well, let's see how it goes. :-)

Man Cee said...

Don't get me wrong; I don't want to shag you. No ma'am.
I'd love to shag 'with' you.

I quote 9ice " ...test me".

Well, let's see how it goes. :-)

Man Cee said...

Don't get me wrong; I don't want to shag you. No ma'am.
I'd love to shag 'with' you.

I quote 9ice " ...test me".

Well, let's see how it goes. :-)

Padosh said...

ROFLMAO see finishing moves..... fatality..,brutality.., FINISH HIM!!!! lol
Poor Anonymous coward i saw dat and wanted to finish "IT" (seeing as we no kno if na boy girl or baboon) for you but i knew u could handle it!! hahahaha!!!

If i was the Anonymous i for confess carry yam go appease the gods after this yab.....chai

Back to human beings....will email u my address so ul invite me wen u go private.

Shubby Doo said...

you got it right...i think i'll be giving it a miss...that is messing with people's everyday life...everybody has a right to make mistakes and to learn from them ...should they choose 2

it just goes to show that no matter what you do...there are some hurtful people out only takes a small pebble to cause some big...perhaps ever-reaching ripples...

her blog seems to be aimed at people at i don pass dat one long time...but i shall be waring family

i thought about leaving but for now i'll stay...if you go private...just invite me sha

badderchic said...

@ Man Cee

Dont you dare get me excited for nothing.

@ Padosh

As in imagine the nerve of the idiot, cow Dung oshi.

Cappuccine Baby said...

abeg missus, ur blog is too sweet for me not to be seeing it, abeg, invite me o

if u can of course

Emeka Amakeze said...

You get it all wrong when you allow other people to define what blogging means to you and then allow someone who probably started blogging yesterday to force you to quit. Quitting means you've given the blog prominence over your decisions. You don't fight darkness with guns and matchets; all you need is a little light like in candle or aloted.

Man Cee said...

You've always excited me.
I suspect you are getting excited.
It's been over 'nothing' ( really).
I place the balls in ur hand to test
Allow the 'something',
Where there's been nothing.

exschoolnerd said...

pls which blog be dat?

sha invite me o!

exschoolnerd said...

Buttercup said...


please invite chari n me o..holla on and

thanx luv!

dont mind them anons jere..just do u!

Afunto baby! said...

what website are we talkin of here?? pls invite me ooo.. cuz i gbadun ur blog

Mista Jaycee said...

Be Well! And stop by my blog. You will enjoy the read.
Mista Jaycee

Ms.O said...

Aww I totally understand babe! Whatevr makes you happy! just invite me.

aloted said...

ah thank God i am not too late...

i respect ur decision to go private...

pls invite me cuz i enjoy reading from u...

Anonymous said...

ROTFLMAOPIMP (PIMP- Peeing In My Pants)!!! Yes gal, give it to dem shit faced anons...LOL!!!

Babes, you know i gat yo back as always. You're one of my few cherished blog pals and we go back a long way, so i'll appreciate you always.

I owe you a very long call, so don't be jealous (lol saw your message on our pal's wall on fb) cos yours gon be special.

How far with this blog now? Abeg send the url to my fb

TTY soon babes. Stay cool.

CWB. xoxo


Hey my baroque and jaja, i see ya...miss ya loads.

One. xx

bArOquE said...

you want me to pour inside? i cant imagine that we were so on the same i cant wait...granted, the kiss (& more) is on ALL your lips, major &

Jarrai said...

forgot to drop my email addy, here it

N.I.M.M.O said...

Chica, I dont know why all of una no 'sign' before you started blogging.

I know some people have started tracing my moves and connecting the dots but really I don 'sign' before I blog. So I can only wish them bad luck in all their endeavors. (No be curse o).

Anyway, I gbadun your yarns so when you are in your kingdom no forget your paddy o:

Ubong Da said...

Otio O! where dem dey! who dey pursue you comot. make i send fire and brimstone after them. Eya. Anyway sha as you go private no forget to give me access o!. You badderchic gist makes my day. You are one of the few who say it as is and I appreciate that a lot from people.

N.I.M.M.O said...

@Chica: the correct email addy is

Single 'n', single 'n', double 'm'. Even I forget sometimes.

Anonymous said...


Hengish said...

Please add me

Sienne said...

oh no

did i come back late or what???

why is this a common trend?